The misunderstood profession

 Karan johar to kareena : - What according to you the following actresses will do as profession if they are not into acting..?
1 st sonam kapur

Kareena : - fashion designer

KJo :- sonakshi sinha?

Kareena- She can look at home properly.. Home maker. 

KJo(giggles) - Why you don't think any good profession for Sonakshi and giving her JUST homemaker.

This statement by kJo was very audacious..

Homemaker is very much a misunderstood and underrated work in our country. But yes it is as tedious , mundane, intellectual than any profession it could be.

If we see other professions we find some interesting result in comparison with home making. 

Let's see one by one

Software testers - they test some stupid applications in 10 different ways and find mistakes.

Software developers - Their work is to develop one page in some bigger application for 6 months and fight with testers

Journalist :  -  Ruin the country's atmosphere. Make people fight on their news channel and efficiently keep the important news away from the world

Actors -  Oh my God they play Halloween for their whole life. They get money for pretending to be someone else. 

Writers - No one is listening to them so they pen down somethings and publish it to the world to try their luck

HR -  Ohh please

Sales and marketing people - Good vocabulary

Finance Guys - They spend the life in tallying the cost sheets and balance sheets. They find some big unachievable number and keep it as target to make the life of sales guys miserable.

There are many such single tasking and  lesser diligent professions.

On the other hand homemaker makes the life of the above careeristic people some what simpler by maintaining the sweetness of the home. Because of their presense we call the house our "home". Being an homemaker is not a small thing it is equally respectable. One should have the guts to stay at home and take the responsibility on one's shoulder and ask other family members to go out and win  and explore the world. 

The comfort system at home helps the other professions to grow. The most amazing thing about the homemaker job is that they are not on any payroll. There is no rating very year. No awards no recognition. Still they excel in all work. So in short respect homemakers always as they are no less than You.

THE BEST WIFE’S BIRTHDAY

                                          THE BEST WIFE’S BIRTHDAY                           

I think whatever I write in this blog you are aware of that already but I will try to bring something fresh. It’s been more than year now that we are together. The best thing happened to me since 29^th December 1990 is YOU. From day 1 I actually felt the changes in my feeling about you, from just a name in my life to the most important and valuable person of my life. Though we don’t have lot of memories of us before marriage but we have collected so many in last six months. I still remember the anxiety I felt every night and watching the clock to reach 10pm. Then your message used to arrive”cl kru ka?” I used to reply with the speed faster than light.  

                              The best thing anybody wants from his or her life partner is the attention and love. I am getting it at its best. I feel so relax in your arms. If someone asks me that which is the best place in world I would surely say Mom’s lap and Mau’s arms. No doubt about it. I feel gloomy whenever I think about the struggle you faced in our relation. With no mistake of yours, you spent sleepless nights. But somewhere I feel so lucky that such a beautiful and a sweet girl is worried about losing me. I feel so proud that I am worth loving and staying in someone s life. I am sorry again for making you sad and breaking the promises. Though we have fought a lot but it’s all because of our love towards each other.

                        Whatever I do in love is only to see you happy. Your smile gives me strength. I am ready to do whatever it takes to keep you smiling. You left everything and came to Hinge’s house with a big smile. You must have missed your family a lot. You stayed strong and calm though being a sensitive person is really a great thing to admire and one should learn this from you. I really feel so much resemblance in you and my Aaji(Mai). You both are very sensitive, cannot hurt anybody, calm by nature, favorite of everyone and last but not the least both loves me a lot.

            Today is your birthday. You are turning 25 today. I wish you a very healthy, prosperous, beautiful, extraordinary life. May Almighty bless you a lot. He has already blessed me with bringing you in my life. Once mom said that “He mulgi hira ahe.” She is 100% right. Thank you for being with me always. I want you with me always. “Tu Hai Toh, I’ll Be Alright”. I LOVE YOU A LOT MY MAU

    !! HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!

Thank you Tilak.

            So much of happiness everywhere. What has actually happened? Ganpati Bappa has come to our place to stay for 5-10 days. So why so much of happiness? Actually there is so much of work, so much of crowd in any stall you visit, loud speakers are in full volume but still people are happy?

            Tilak started this festival on grand scale around 120 years before with an intention that people will come together. His motto was that people should plan something against the cruel British leadership and make our India free from such brutal English people. People should share their thoughts, ideas, creativity among each other.  In so much of depression, slavery in that period people got an opportunity to be happy, wear new clothes, also a hope that God will bless us with freedom.

            In today’s era the motto is same but not for bad british but for bad things inside each and every one of us due to some or other reasons. Before ganpati arrives we sit and plan for the things which are required. We ask elders what is the significance of each and everything. During the main days of Ganpati family members unit and celebrate the arrival and stay of the Lord. Only on those days relatives stop gossiping and work with synergy. On the third day Gauri arrives for 3 days. This is to remind people that we should respect the ladies around us. So much of sweet to eat. Friends, neighbours all visit us for the blessings of Lord but automatically the relations also get strong. Formal ones change to informal.

            On public level if a society or apartments arrange a Ganpati festival than all kind of people, also with different taste, age, caste come together and celebrate the festival. Instead of sitting at home or at work place and only thinking about our own career and self centred stuff, we see things out of us. Everyone does work, studies, career etc for only one thing that is Happiness and satisfaction. Such festivals bring happiness. Though it is temporary but surely helps us to face the challenges which come between our work, studies and career. Thank You Tilak once again for giving us such a cheerful and encouraging festival. 

LEARN FROM GODs

                 Hinduism is not a religion but a way of life. Our deities depicted it very beautifully. Instead of just praying to God when we are in some problems or reciting the Shlokas, we can learn from them and find the answer to the impediments. We perform idol worship and have made our mind that they are God so they can conquer the problems or any obstacles they face. Instead see them as symbol for answering our issues. Also there must be some hidden message given by the almighty to us through the photos we see of them as God. If we say God is“Nirgun Nirakar” (which means virtue less and formless God) then how can he be in so many shapes and sizes? May be He wants us to learn something from the depictions.

 Lets take this picture. Elephant headed God. May be he wants us to protect animals as we human being who can think should be the saviour of mother earth and her children. Especially Elephant does not have any enemy in forest. Though being such a huge body he never troubles anyone. This could also be a message for us that be strong be confident but be down to earth.

This picture is especially for girls. If a girl decides she can control a Lion and kill the evil around by herself. Instead of depending on any man be self confident and fight wherever needed. This picture depicts the power of a woman. She can handle so many things at a time. If we relate it for today’s scenario, a woman can do a good career and also look after her family at a same time.

                

Hanuman as all know symbolize strength. He is also a great manager and a leader. He showed it in Lanka episode. Lord Rama asked him only to find Sita. But he proactively destroyed the place so that to show Ravana that his enemy is not someone ordinary. Also by burning whole Lanka he made publicity of the unrighteous deed of Ravana.

                Indra the king of God. Though being a king he is anxious and uneasy always as he feared that his throne is endangered. He got cursed too because of his deeds. So this shows that be calm and contented with what we have with us. Don’t be too anxious.

               

  Lord Rama, though we call him Lord he dint perform any miracles like typical Gods did. He just had his bow and arrow and won every war he fought. He teaches us man doesn’t need extraordinary powers to be good and be “Maryada purushottam”. He faced every challenge a man faces in life. He studied the situation and found the best answer for it.

-         - Feeling Proud OF BEING HINDU    

   

THE LOVE STORY-I will be there for you ;)

                

              Thank you so much for making my life cheerful. This blog is just a tribute to you. My love for you. Sorry I kept you 12^th. Apology!  I lived all alone for 6 years in my flat but by the end of 4^th year I was introduced to you. And my Life Changed. I felt you in my home since then. I talked with you. I imagined how you must have reacted in XYZ situation. I followed the way you show me in any issues I faced.  My friends told me when I start talking about you I am unstoppable. I smile I laugh I giggle I make faces and I am happy. They love me like this. You seriously mesmerised me. I never got or will get such a companion in my life for sure. I LOVE YOU!

               I still remember the first encounter with you “chandler stuck in an atm” it was love at first sight; from that day my thinking my life has changed. The friendship between you people cannot be described in words. F.R.I.E.N.D.S changed my thinking and opinion about west. The love between Chandler and Monica was so pure. The fight for house was so involving for me and when Chandler and Joe won it was top of the world feeling for me as if I have won the Quiz.

                Pheobe how can you be so generous and ready to do whatever you can for people let it be your granny, sis, or your beloved friends.  Joe I know you are brightest in all. People are very dumb to know you, understand you. I want to be like you. A shower and all your sorrows are in bathroom outlet. People cared for you and they don’t how you will react is enough for you Ross, right?

                Hope Rachel you know cooking by now. Don’t you worry I am facing the same problem. I can’t cook but world wants me learn cooking. Monica! are you an Indian? How you have all the qualities of an Indian woman!  Chandler how’s your twins? Hope they get your sarcasm. And yes you are the funniest in the world.

                                   F.R.I.E.N.D.S thanks for being a part of life.

                HAPPINESS IS WATCHING F.R.I.E.N.D.S AGAIN AND AGAIN. 

--SPECIAL THANKS TO ROSHNI SHINDE

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